What makes you good?

My answer will be, I will not cheat myself. Remember, One can cheat others but  not all forever. There is one thing called conscience. Can anybody, including myself run away from  this conscience ?

If I can bring smile on any face than I am good for a moment.

If somebody ask this question to me, my answer will be "I am very innocent and so I can forget the sins of others." There are some people who like to hurt others with rude and indecent words. When they say these words, they are not bothered about the feelings of others. When people hurt me with hard words, I won't give any reply to them but I will cry silently after sometime. I have feelings for a short time. The next day, I forget this incident and behave them in a normal way. So I can proudly say that this is the habit that makes me good. 

I am good, but not good alone. Everyone, and the whole world, is a mixture of good and bad qualities. Contradiction is the law of life. A situation of good alone or bad alone is non-existent. 

My good qualities are: 

• I think good and do good; 
• I love every one; and 
• I am unselfish. 

….But why should I do good? Because I believe it is good to do good.

I think its your state of mind, your intent and your action. But in nature there is no good or bad. You don't have a badly behaving raindrop or a river that is evil. You don't have a  lion or a bad flower. Animals follow instinct. Though pet owners will disagree! But even the Dog Whisperer knows this.

We have certain impressions formed because of our limited five senses. Which is our way to access the world, in general. But when we use our sixth sense we realise that good and bad are just labels and they keep changing according to our mood, our enviroment and thought. Mostly it all seems to revolve around the thoughts that supply us with labels and information that is usually based on limited perspective. This leads to misconceptions, flawed conclusions, unfounded fears and baseless biases. We literally create imaginary worlds of paradise and hell in our head which is seldom in rhythm with the reality around us. And we don't give ourselves enough time to reflect on our perception and watch reality in slow motion.

We rarely see the bigger picture and our role in it as bit players. Instead we construct universes with ourselves as the focal point. When science discovered that the Earth was not the centre of the universe, it was not just a technical discovery, but a purely philosophical and spiritual one, that allowed man to see his part in the scheme of things. Although he doesn't seem to be paying much notice to that information. Perhaps he is not ready to absorbed the knowledge because of the leisurely natural process that involve his evolving from an atom to superconsciousness. It's probably part of a long process and will take its course. I, for my part, am pretty sure that's where he is supposed to be heading.

Am I good or not is based upon the people to judge but yes, I can say some traits about myself so that you can judge for yourself about me. I am:

1. simple and straightforward and dislike them who believe in double standard.

2. Love them who are good but can't accept anyone even my blood relations who treat others badly and are very selfish

3. Though I avoid to spend time with them whom I feel are very negative minded, I try to remain indifferent and not abuse them only because I think abusing anyone is a bad trait. If very much needed then I would prefer to speak up openly and show my disgust and not shy away because I believe a wrongdoer should not be excused.

4. For me every relationship is very important so no relationship of mine can overtake another relationship's position.

There are many more to say about myself but let it be this much only.  

I try to be the best me that i can possibly be and that's what makes me good.

I don't like to hurt anybody. whatever it takes to make others happy I try to do it, even if it is painful to me. I want others like my friends, family, etc to be happy, if they are not,I can feel the pain of others which makes me more sad.

I never hurt people though they hurt us with their words. I help people unconditionally. Recently I learnt we are good but we being good is not right. the other person also should be good. or else they keep on hurting us. Once we hurt them, they feel more, but they wont even think these many times i hurt them directly but they never said a single word but once they tried to hurt me and i am doing this much  seen. This my self experience friends.