Childhood is the beautiful stage of life. Children are just the gift of god. When they are born they are free from all things. They have no tension and no burden. They are just free up to the age of three year. But as soon as they put their step forward as the age of three years parents admit them to school,  which often they dislike.  Parents start putting pressure on them and this process continues year by year and their burden of studies increases. 

We have often notice that children always want to play and concentration on studies is  a difficult task for them. The teachers put heavy burden of home works on the children. Many teachers scold them for not doing proper studies which only put fear into them. This leads child to fall under depresion. In most schools, it has been found that in each class there are more than 60 students. It is not possiable for one teacher look at every student. So the teacher found that the easiest way to maintain peace in class was to put fear in the mind of children. We should blame parents also as they forcefully indulge their children in many activities which sometime may not create interest in children. 

Childhood moments are the best moment of life. If lost, these  never come back. This is the time for the children to play, to be loved and looked after their health. Many parents try to live their dreams through their children. But parents should not do such great injustice towards their children. They must look what their children want, what are their likings. Parents must not put presure on their children for studies. It has been noticed that now a days pressure is there on studies and parents put must stress on them, but this does more harm than good to them. Today the competition in any walk of life is very stiff. So it is necessary to build up the self confidence in every child. No doubt, one has to do well in studies but even more is the process of learning. It is essential to learn new things and move ahead in life. Instead of living in pressure parents must motivate their children to perform better. children's  failure does not mean that their life has stopped and ended. As we all know that failure leads to success.

So we must encourage children to be strong and have the courage to face all situation of life. Man's biggest enemy is failure. And failure adversely affects the performance of children. So brace up and make children understand their duty without any fear. 

• Written by Sharmistha Banerjee.
• In category Parenting and Child Development.
• 12 years ago.

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