How to be a Perfect Parent?
"Am I an ideal parent for my child?" This is a question that usually many parents have in their mind but most of them can't make proper judgement to this question. However, good parenting is very helpful for foster mutual development. In fact, it is only with an aid of good parenting that a young child learns qualities like honesty, sympathy, empathy, self control, self-reliance,cheerfulness and feeling of co-operation in life. These qualities are highly desirable to become a good human being. To generate and develop such skills inside their child, parents must follow these tips:-
Treat your child as a friend:- Friendly behavior with a child whether he or she is small or a teenager and even a young adult, always results in a close relations between parents and child. You as a parent must show interest in your child life and must encourage them to express their feeling. You must also share your experiences with them so as to remove their hesitation towards you.
Respect their feelings and emotion:- For a child at growing stage, support of parent results in his or her mutual progression. They too have many feelings and emotions which they try to hide, if their family is not supportive. To win your child's faith, you must respect his or her feelings and emotion.
Never treat with violence for their mistakes:- If you child has committed any mistake then as a good parent, you must treat him or her with patience and soft behavior instead of getting anger on him. It is generally observed that violent treatment for any mistake of the child creates negative affect on child mindset which in turn many times results in hatred.
Show alertness:- As a parent or care-taker, you must show alertness in your child life. You also need to keep updated with your child surrounding environment. In case your child's friend circle and surrounding environment is not good then you must explain to your child the drawback of such environment and encourage him or her to drop it.
Conclusion
These are the tips that work well in making the parent and children relationship stronger and sharper. Follow these tips and take credit of being an ideal parent from your child as a response of good parenting.
- Written by MOHD SHAHID KHAN.
- In category Parenting and Child Development.
- 10 years ago.
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