i have gone thru this before during my sister time. now again this
Very sad turn of events but you know my limitations. I am terrible as an adviser in the affairs of love and marriage not like someone who has acclaimed expertise in match-making and astrology both!!!
Coming to the more serious business of commenting on your problems, one thing passes my comprehension which is why two educated and financially independent adults can not take their life into their hands by deciding it themselves. The way reservation has been perpetuated in India contrary to the vision of the founding fathers of our constitution, I foresee a situation when Brhamins too would find their caste in the schedule for reservation!!!! :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy:
So you can convince your yet-to-be-father-in-law and all yet- to-bees that Brahmins too would be dubbed as SC in a matter of few years!! :P :P :P :P :P :P