Reasons Behind The Breaking Of A Relationship
Two individuals meet, spend time and fall in love with each other. They take an oath to spend their whole life with each other. Every moment they spend with each other become memorable and special for them. They consider the day luckiest when they met for the first time. With the passing of time, comes a day when they start regretting about the day they met and start asking themselves why they fell in love. Suddenly those fantassies and special moments turn in nightmares. The situation becomes so bad that they even think what went wrong so that the love goes out of their life, what are the reasons behind why those memorable days become bad dreams. Here I am trying to share my feelings about the reasons that widen the gap between two hearts that causes break ups and breaking of marriages.
Expectations
This is supposed to be the most common and frequent reason behind breaking of marriages and relationships. Expectations make a person’s life tremendously hard and painful some times. On the other hand this kills a person from both side his or her own point as well as from the point of the one who is expecting something from them. A person expects many things from his or her partner and believes that they will do everything accordingly. On the other hand their par believes and expects many things from them that they will do so. The problem arises when these expectations not fulfilled. This makes them annoyed and irritated that also reflects in their behaviour and leads their relationship to an end. There is no end of expectations sometime it hikes up to the limit that people start expecting that a person will change entirely for them.
Burden Of Responsibilities
When a person comes in a relationship like marriage it brings many responsibilities along with it. Sometimes they start feeling that it is really very tough for them to bear this burden as well as fulfilling the personal and professional expectations at the same time. This becomes a vital reason behind frustration and anger that widen the gap between the hearts. Sometimes this makes a person’s live living hell is such situation resisting someone become impossible for them.
Communication Gap
In this fast forward life style people become so tiring that they don’t get time to talk or express their feelings with their partners. This growing silence became a most vital reason behind the unsung death of many lively relationships. This silence or lack of time creates unrecoverable gap between relations. This age of technology has invented many effective and magnificent means of communication but they forget to develop one that can connect two hearts in such situations.
Current Social Scenario
The current social scenario is also well considered as a big reason behind breaking of relationships. Now a day society is increasing the feeling of insecurity and doubt in a person’s heart. People don’t have trust for their partner because of many issues where they feel cheated. On the same side cheating dumping are become usual activities for youngsters as well as matured people.
Conclusion
If you really in love with someone and mean it then don’t let your relationship suffer from any of their diseases try to develop a strong bonding and understanding in your relationship. Come so closer that you can understand unsung feelings of your partner. Don’t try to change them accept them as they are as well as don’t try to break anyone’s trust. Breaking of trust is the offence that doesn’t have any prison. The person who breaks trust breaks the opportunity of forgiveness for them. It is really very painful protect yourself from this suffering.
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